{"id":3457,"date":"2019-10-03T08:00:48","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T07:00:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.childrenscommissioner.gov.uk\/imo\/?p=3457"},"modified":"2023-08-17T10:37:49","modified_gmt":"2023-08-17T10:37:49","slug":"the-imo-podcast-episode-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.childrenscommissioner.gov.uk\/imo\/career-experiences\/the-imo-podcast-episode-3\/","title":{"rendered":"The IMO Podcast, series 1 episode 3: Nathaniel and Victoria&#8217;s stories"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-group is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\">\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.childrenscommissioner.gov.uk\/imo\/podcast\/\">The IMO Podcast<\/a> is a series of open and honest conversations with care leavers, shining a light on their experiences. Each episode we invite someone who\u2019s been in care to talk about anything they like. It\u2019s an opportunity to hear the voices of people who often don\u2019t get the chance to tell their stories, and it\u2019s a chance to inspire and encourage others in similar situations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><strong><strong>Subscribe to the IMO podcast on <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.google.com\/?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9waW5lY2FzdC5jb20vZmVlZC90aGUtaW1vLXBvZGNhc3Q%3D\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Google<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/gb\/podcast\/imo-podcast-open-honest-conversations-care-leavers\/id1482401482\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Apple<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/4os3G34whJW7J83c5RN8g2?si=RbsmF1IVS521zUj6LZ01lA&amp;dl_branch=1\">Spotify<\/a> to hear episodes as they&#8217;re released.\u00a0<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.google.com\/?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9waW5lY2FzdC5jb20vZmVlZC90aGUtaW1vLXBvZGNhc3Q\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"268\" height=\"68\" src=\"https:\/\/www.childrenscommissioner.gov.uk\/imo\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/google_podcasts_badge@2x.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3489\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/gb\/podcast\/imo-podcast-open-honest-conversations-care-leavers\/id1482401482\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"281\" height=\"68\" src=\"https:\/\/www.childrenscommissioner.gov.uk\/imo\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/US_UK_Apple_Podcasts_Listen_Badge_RGB1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3554\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/4os3G34whJW7J83c5RN8g2?si=RbsmF1IVS521zUj6LZ01lA&amp;dl_branch=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/assets.childrenscommissioner.gov.uk\/wpuploads\/sites\/3\/2023\/06\/listen-on-spotify.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6931\" width=\"186\" height=\"68\" srcset=\"https:\/\/assets.childrenscommissioner.gov.uk\/wpuploads\/sites\/3\/2023\/06\/listen-on-spotify.png 371w, https:\/\/assets.childrenscommissioner.gov.uk\/wpuploads\/sites\/3\/2023\/06\/listen-on-spotify-300x110.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 186px) 100vw, 186px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>In the third episode, we met Nathaniel and Victoria through an organisation called <a href=\"http:\/\/siblingstogether.co.uk\/\">Siblings Together<\/a>. Nathaniel and Victoria are not related but they both were separated from their brothers and sisters when being taken into care. They tell us what that separation feels like and give us an insight into contact arrangements.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201c[Sibling contact is important because] it brings normality back into people\u2019s lives. It means that they can grow together and, when they eventually leave care, they will have those connections there. [I still have difficulties] to this day. A few months ago I was given the wrong contact day. I arrived on the day to be told that it\u2019s not that day, it is in fact tomorrow. It\u2019s embarrassing, it\u2019s frustrating, and it makes you angry and upset.\u201d (Nathaniel)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-3457-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/pinecast.com\/listen\/d2c25f29-4be6-4c2c-8851-8c917c31e979.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/pinecast.com\/listen\/d2c25f29-4be6-4c2c-8851-8c917c31e979.mp3\">https:\/\/pinecast.com\/listen\/d2c25f29-4be6-4c2c-8851-8c917c31e979.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Follow Siblings Together on Twitter here: <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/siblings2gether\">@siblings2gether<\/a>, and follow Victoria here: <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/vickisnap\">@vickisnap<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The IMO Podcast is a series of open and honest conversations with care leavers, shining a light on their experiences. 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